You may have heard stories or witnessed people swapping kandi around you, usually while doing some type of secret handshake, and you might be curious about what exactly is happening. If you’ve been wondering how to trade kandi at a rave, we’ve got the tips, tricks, and etiquette rules you need to know before you get started.
Most people use the term “kandi” to describe brightly colored beaded bracelets that are usually made with pony beads (those plastic beads you used to make bracelets as a kid).
Today, kandi can be used to describe beaded bracelets, necklaces, masks, and even clothing, as people have become more and more creative in the way they use their beads. Kandi is a distinctive and unique part of rave culture and is designed to be given away or traded away as a sign of PLUR culture - peace, love, unity, and respect.
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It might seem a bit strange that a subculture would have its own motto, but that’s exactly the case with raves and the PLUR lifestyle. What’s ironic is that the PLUR motto actually came from a decidedly un-PLUR situation.
As the story goes, New York DJ Frankie Bones was playing at a rave in the Bronx on July 24, 1993. A fight broke out in the crowd and ended up spilling over onto Bones’ deck. He grabbed the microphone and shouted “You better start showing some peace, love, and unity or I will break your f*cking faces!”
The story of the humorous moment ended up spreading throughout the 90s rave scene like wildfire and was a testimony to the difficulties and struggles surrounding the early scene.
Ever since, PLUR culture has been synonymous with the rave scene, and today, ravers demonstrate respect and love to everyone while expressing themselves and dancing the night away in peace and unity. Kandi is symbolic of PLUR culture and symbolizes a strong connection made between two people at a rave or festival.
One of the most special parts of trading kandi actually occurs before the trade even happens while making kandi. Although some people choose to buy kandi, this is generally frowned upon in kandi etiquette , because kandi is supposed to be meaningful, special, and unique.
With that said, if you don’t have time to make kandi before your next festival and you don’t want to show up empty handed, you’ll be forgiven for buying it. Making kandi requires just a few simple supplies. To make kandi, you’ll need:
If you’re new to making kandi or arts and crafts aren’t exactly your strong suit, start by making a simple single strand bead bracelet. These are the easiest to make and are also the most commonly traded with other people. As a bonus, it’s easy to get creative, and they’re inexpensive to make.
You can personalize your bracelets using letter beads to create phrases or write out the person’s name, and you can also add charms and unique beads that reflect your interests or the interests of the person you’re making them for. Most people wear layers of kandi bracelets stacked up their arms for dramatic effect, but they can also be stitched together to form a cuff if you’re looking to get a little fancier.
Kandi can pretty much be made in any form, including 3D bracelets, necklaces, perlers, masks, and even clothing, if you’re particularly talented with your beadwork.
If you’ve never heard of perlers, they’re a unique type of necklace made of small, heat activated beads (called perler beads) that fuse together when heated. Perlers can be made to resemble certain cartoon characters, shapes, symbols, and patterns, and the only limit on what they can be is your creativity.
Check out this blog post for how to make your own 3D Kandi Cuff!
Once you’ve made your kandi, it’s time for the fun part - trading it! While it might seem as simple as walking up to the nearest person and asking to swap, there’s actually some fairly specific kandi trading etiquette that should be followed, and a specific process that usually goes down.
Kandi is traded when you make a special connection with someone, whether it be a person you met in line for the porta-potties, your BFF, or the hot guy dancing next to you all night. This creates special meaning and memories behind the kandi you trade, and those memories can stick with you for years to come.
As a general rule, kandi is always swapped after doing the PLUR handshake. Yes, rave culture has its own secret handshake, and learning it is kandi-essential! To perform the PLUR handshake, you’ll draw out the symbols of the motto with your fingers to spell out P (peace), L (love), U (unity), and R (respect).
That’s it! If you’re trading necklaces, use both hands to perform the handshake during necklace trades, but otherwise, use just one hand to swap bracelets.
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Now it’s time to discuss a few kandi trading etiquette guidelines. Of course, always do the PLUR handshake when trading kandi, but besides that, you’ll want to follow the rest of these guidelines as well.
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When it comes to kandi trading, both arms are not created equal. Generally speaking, most kandi traders keep the kandi that they are willing to trade on their right arm and their “untradeable” kandi on their left arm.
Kandi that is untradeable might have special meaning, have been given to the person, or go with the theme of the person’s costume. While everyone is different, this is a general rule. If someone offers for you to choose a piece of kandi when you’re trading, make sure to ask if there are any pieces that are off limits, just to be careful.
Of course, you don’t have to trade kandi if you don’t want to - you can just give it away! If you see someone who is kandi-less or who looks particularly lonely or sad, giving them kandi can be a way to lift their spirits and bring them into the PLUR lifestyle. Kandi is about spreading PLUR wherever you go, so take the opportunity to give it away whenever you can.
]]>“Back in the day when I was still a huge kandi kid, I made it my mission to make kandi for every person in my rave family. 2014-2016 was a rough period with my last rave family, the drama nearly tearing apart all of the group. I still keep in touch with some of them, but I could tell that things would never be the same. Once 2016 came around, I began raving with a new group of friends who were new to the rave scene. I made these cuffs to commemorate our first EDC together as a rave family with their given rave names written on the back of the flowers. It was one of the first EDC’s where everything went smoothly, everyone took care of one another, and had an awesome weekend dancing under the electric sky.”
“Getting to trade with someone who has inspired me in my kandi journey was one of the highlights of EDCLV 2017. Walking through the tunnel on day one, he was the first person I saw and traded with by chance. It was pure magic with that unbelievable backdrop. The big cuff on my arm is the one he traded me and the big one he’s wearing I made! Anyone who follows @bboysfear knows his kandi making level is out of this world! His designs pushed me to use more expensive string beads and colors to my kandi! He really helped me find my own unique style!”
“So my friend Elina (IG: @medusaxrose) traded me this beautiful pink hello kitty kandi cuff I was eyeing forever; little did I know it was for me! I've seen her way before EDC and we became friends a bit before Beyond Wonderland 2017, but since Beyond we were raving together all the time. I love her spirit her personality and she's my go to when I want dress all matchy matchy. Elina is like the ying and I'm yang, her being this bad ass me being all cutesy. We always have a match day and she inspires me to be more out the box with my style. If it wasn't for her, I wouldn't have found my new rave fam. She kept me from leaving the rave scene when I lost my rave fam that came before her and I'm glad she convince me to stay!”
“Although I didn’t know him that well, I just felt Caleb was a genuine person. Sometimes I make kandi with no specific person in mind. I save them until the right person comes along. He’s a volunteer for Conscious Crew, a nonprofit group that focuses on safety at Washington raves. Caleb always remembers my name, says hi to me, and gives hugs. He asked if I wanted to trade someday and I asked what he likes, he said spongebob. Then I said, ‘Ohh actually I have something for you now.’ Then I gave him my Smitty perler and he cried!”
“After having really bad depression, my two-year-old boy was desperate to get me out of the house as I would always be sleeping. He would play the song on my phone “You Are a Cinema” by Benny Benassi all the time until he would get me out of bed to buy donuts or whatever. Fast forward to my first EDC 2015 and this guy from Miami trades kandi with me for the first time and he gives me this single, exactly as if he knew this song is very special to me, and it got me out of my depression.”
“EDC 2016 was such a life-changing, transformative experience. I went into Vegas ready to have the time of my life and gained so much more. The bond and love cultivated that weekend with my rave fam, strangers, old friends, new friends, foreign friends, will hold a special place where Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect allow multitudes of people to come together in one place without the worry of judgement or worries of the outside world. Keep the love going because it is what makes this community the best out there. This piece is symbolic of the journey raving and EDM has taken me in. Thank you to my family Jacob (IG: @ecua_salvi_93) and Salena (IG: @salenamour) for blessing me with such a beautiful piece. I have learned so much about what it means to be a raver through you both and I am so honored to call ya’ll 87 Fam, family, blood, and rave fam. I can’t picture the rest of my life without the both of you in it.”
“This story is from EDC in 2014. I was on my way to EDC in 2014 and my friend that I was driving out there with was reminiscing about a rave we’d been to in the Bay Area about 9 months before. She and I had only raved together a couple times before EDC and she didn’t know a lot of my friends that we’d been with that night so she was trying to figure out who of them were going to be with us at EDC that year. She asked me what the name of the “blue fuzzy hat guy” was and I replied that I had no idea who she was talking about. She pulls up pictures from that night and he’s in all our photos. I reply that I didn’t actually know him and had only briefly chatted with him that night. She said she thought he was my friend couldn’t believe I didn’t know him since we she chatted to him all night. We laughed about this. Flash forward to night two of EDC and from across the crowd she spots blue fuzzy hat guy!!!!!!! She and I had just split up and she grabs his hand and drags him through the crowd back to where I was standing. We all embrace and it was a beautiful moment. We end up trading Kandi and I give him one I’d made that I really loved - a piece of squishy toast that said “I Knead U” on it. We exchange contact numbers because we’re both from the Bay Area and say we’ll try to meet up the next day. Day 3 passes and we never text each other. I hadn’t even saved his number in my phone. Around 11am on Monday morning (I’ve only been asleep for about 30 minutes) and my phone starts to ring - a random 415 number. I think, "holy shit if this is Walgreens or something I will kill someone." Turns out, it’s blue fuzzy hat guy and they totaled their car on the way back from EDC and they were desperately calling anyone they knew headed to the Bay looking for space in a car because they had to be at work in the morning. We had two seats in our car so we ended up driving them all the way back to San Francisco. Blue Fuzzy Hat guy (Will is his real name!) and I have been great friends ever since. Turns out he’s the one who “kneaded” me. He still has the Kandi to this day and we love to share that story of how our friendship and to be!
From kandi kids decked in cuffs or just wearing a few singles, kandi represents the hours of meticulous hard work ravers put into each piece. You don't have to be a pro at making a beautiful kandi to make it meaningful, but the symbolism and memories behind the kandi is what makes it special. I hope you all have an amazing EDC and create your very own magical kandi experience! To learn how to make Kandi on your own, check out our guide published here!
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Materials:
Pony Beads
Decorative Beads (could be made of wood, glass, plastic, etc)
Letter Beads
Elastic String
Since there are many types of kandi cuffs, here are some Youtube tutorials for them that are very easy to follow!
Rainbow striped peyote kandi cuff tutorial by Kandi Toybox
3D Cuff - [Kandi Tutorial] by Ginger CandE
X-Base Cuff - [Kandi Tutorial] by Ginger CandE
Photo Credit: @liyakitten
Materials:
Perler Beads (usually sold at craft stores)
Perler pegboard
Pattern
Masking tape
Large needle
Parchment paper
Beads for necklace
Elastic string
Iron
Lay your perler pegboard on a flat work surface. Start with the dark outline first to make sure your design fits on the board. If you have the large tub of perler beads, separating your colors before you start your project will make this process a lot easier!
Fill in the rest with your perler beads. You can either follow the pattern or be creative and use completely different colors.
Once you have all the beads laid out on the board and it’s ready to be melted, lay masking tape on top of your project. Go slow on this step (I’ve messed up many projects up rushing through this), and make sure you press down on the tape to make sure the beads are stuck to it. Use a needle and poke holes over the tape. This step is optional but highly recommended. Melting your project direct on the pegboard can warp your board over time.
Lay your project on a flat surface with the taped side down and lay parchment paper on top of your perler. Plug the iron in and set it to low/medium heat and melt the beads over the parchment paper by moving the iron in slow, circular motions.
Once the beads are melted (the holes in the beads will look smaller), carefully take the tape off, flip your project and repeat step 6.
Wait for perler to cool down. Put flat, heavy objects such as books on top of it so the perler will be flat when it cools.
Poke two holes on the top of the perler, one on each side. Cut a long piece of elastic string and string it through one of the holes so the string folds in half. Put beads through both strings but make sure to leave some room at the end of it so you can tie it. Then string one side of the string through the second hole and make a knot.
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Kandi master, @kandi_diva created this tutorial to show you how to make an awesome glow-in-the-dark perler! Then, she'll show you how to turn it into a perler neckalce.
To get started, check out the video, or read the steps below.
Step 1: Gather the supplies:
You will need:
Step 2:
Print this design (or draw your own!) perler design on a piece of paper and place pegboards on top.
Step 3:
First, begin by making the outline of the alien using 1 color, then fill it in with glow in the dark beads.
Step 4:
Next, move on to the outline of one side of the bow. Begin by filling in the outline of the bow, then fill in the flowers with some fun colored beads to give it some flair.
Step 5: Add the additional pegboards
Add two pegboards to both sides in order to finish the outline of the bow. Then fill in the inside of the bow.
Step 6:
Repeat step 5 for the opposite side of the bow.
Step 7: Iron your perler
Once you have all the beads added to the pegboards, get a piece of wax paper and cover your perler. Make sure your iron is hot and ready to go before you start ironing. Iron the entire upper side of the perler until you can see the perler beads all melted together through the wax paper. Then, flip the perler over and fold the wax paper over the backside. Lightly iron the other side so the beads are fused on both sides.
Step 8: Make Your Perler Sparkle!
You will need:
Apply a little hot glue in the area you would like the glitter to be. Use the small makeup brush to push the glitter into the glue.
Periodically, flip the peeler over and tap the back of the perler to remove the excess glitter and make sure the glitter is in all the right places.
To add rhinestones, add a tiny dot of glue in the are you would like them, then gently place the rhinestones.
Step 9: Turn your perler into a necklace
You will need:
Feed the string through the peeler, then add the beads to the other side of the perler. After adding 6 beads, add an accent bead to create a pattern. Repeat this process until you feel you’ve added enough beads for the necklace to sit comfortably on your neck.
Step 10: Make it Extra Sturdy
Reloop the string back up through the first accent bead so that you have beads coming out of the front and back of both sides of the perler necklace. Tie a knot on both sides and then cut the excess.
And - tada, you’re all done!
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]]>Wondering how to make a 3D cuff? 3D cuffs start out with a simple X-based cuff and then can be built out to create multiple layers and for a fun 3D look. Typically there is some kind of small toy, charm or even a pearler that gets added to the finished project. Check out this article for tutorials from @misshalcyon441 and Rose the Raver.
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This is my most frequently asked question and here's my guide on just that! Whether you're a newbie kandi kid, or seasoned raver who wants to try something new, this tutorial breaks it down into how to make the base and how to build it up into a 3D kandi cuff. Happy creating! - Ducky AKA @misshalcyon441
Check out this step-by-step guide for making a Hello Kitty 3D kandi cuff from Rose The Raver:
This 3D cuff starts out with a simple X-based cuff and then can be built out to create multiple layers and for a fun 3D look. First, pick your charm or small toy, like this Hello Kitty charm to add to your 3D kandi cuff.
For this project you will need the following supplies:
Next, you're ready to come up with a pattern and start your 3D kandi cuff.
You can make the huge so they become epic cuffs or you can make them really small and cute. The outer row doesn’t have to follow the X pattern either you could make the rows go around. The sky’s the limit, just play around with it until you find something you like.
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]]>Here are step-by-step instruction on how to make kandi, specifically how to make perlers to take to your next rave!
Materials:
1. Pick a pattern to use for your project.
A good place to look for patterns are Google and Pintrest if you are looking for anything specific. If you are wanting to turn an image into a pattern, websites such as Beadifier lets you upload your own image to create a pattern. For the purpose of this article, I created a unicorn perler necklace.
2. Lay your perler pegboard on a flat work surface.
Start with the dark outline first to make sure your design fits on the board. If you have the large tub of perler beads, separating your colors before you start your project will make this process a lot easier!
3. Fill in the rest with your perler beads.
You can either follow the pattern or be creative and use completely different colors!
4. Lay masking tape on top of your project.
Once you have all the beads laid out on the board and it’s ready to be melted, lay tape down carefully. Go slow on this step (I’ve messed up many projects up rushing through this), and make sure you press down on the tape to make sure the beads are stuck to it. Use your needle and poke holes over the tape. This step is optional but highly recommended. Melting your project directly on the pegboard can warp your board over time.
5. Slowly and carefully peel the edges of the tape off and flip the pegboard.
For bigger projects, it’s highly recommended to flip your piece with cardboard on the other side for stability.
6. Lay your project on a flat surface with the taped side down and lay parchment paper on top of your perler.
Plug the iron in and set it to low/medium heat and melt the beads over the parchment paper by moving the iron in slow, circular motions.
7. Once the beads are melted (the holes in the beads will look smaller), carefully take the tape off
Flip your project and repeat step 6 and 7. Wait for peler to cool down. Put flat, heavy objects such as books on top of it so the perler will be flat when it cools.
8. Poke two holes on the top of the perler, one on each side.
Cut a long piece of elastic string and string it through one of the holes so the string folds in half. Put beads through both strings but make sure to leave some room at the end of it so you can tie it. Then string one side of the string through the second hole and make a knot. Your perler necklace is done! Take it to a rave or festival and trade it with someone you vibe with!
]]>Truthfully, Perler creations are easier to save than cuffs and singles, in my opinion. Ironing is my go-to thing to do for peeler pieces that haven’t completely broken in any way. If it cracks a little during the rave, put it in your rave backpack for the night and fix it when you get back to your hotel. I’ve found that most of the places my crew and I stay have an iron, so I keep extra parchment paper with me for this purpose. Just fire the iron up, re-iron the piece, and you’re good to go!
A lot of medium to small pieces can be turned into keychains! It’s a fun way to show off your favorite creations even if you can’t wear them anymore. Sidenote: If it’s broken off the cuff or single, you might have missing pieces still attached to the bracelet. If you can safely remove the missing pieces without ruining the whole cuff/single, go ahead and do that and re-iron it back together.
If you’re okay with the creation having some missing pieces, that works just as well! I like to slightly heat up a large sewing needle with a lighter so it goes through the fused beads without having to force it too much (But be careful, the needle can get really hot). I like to make the hole somewhere near the edge of the creation, but not so close that it’s just in danger of breaking off again. You have to find that sweet spot where the hole is close enough to the edge where you can put the keyring through without too much trouble, but far enough to where it won’t break again.
And there you have it! Your new keychain is ready for action.
This is one of my favorite ways to repurpose pieces by far. Just like before, go ahead and perform some surgery (aka re-ironing) if needed, poke a hole near the top, and use a lark’s head knot to attach the creation to string. Tie it off, and you’ve got yourself a fun, new rearview mirror dangler.
You can find pins with flat backs at craft stores pretty easily. Just hot glue one to the back of a perler creation and now you have a new pin!
Singles and cuffs are a little harder to fix. Sometimes if a knot isn’t tied securely enough (if this is a recurring problem for you, check this kandi-tying article out), it may come undone during the rave. No worries! You may lose a few beads, but in my experience, I’ve noticed the cuff getting looser and slipping more before I lose too many beads.
I’ve been able to save my cuff mid-rave by taking the end of the string that came loose and re-tying it to the string somewhere around it. If you try this, make sure to triple knot it at least. Third time’s the charm, right?
If all else fails, it’s perfectly okay to retire a piece. Just because you feel like you can’t wear it out anymore doesn’t mean that you love it any less. I keep some Kandi that’s gotten a little too much love displayed in my room. Finding little ways like these to keep adding positivity to your life is a great reminder that PLUR doesn’t need to end when the rave does.
These are just a few ways you can fix and repurpose creations. If you have other ways to fix perlers or kandi that are not listed here, leave us a line in the comments below. We’d love to hear!
]]>Hey guys, I’m back with another lovely tutorial for you all. It’s been a while since I’ve been in the studio, but I’m happy to be back. We’ve gotten a lot of requests for this surgical kandi mask and I’m so excited to finally be able to share it with you! I know a mask is a little difficult to create and it may take a while, but don’t get frustrated and if you get lost or have any questions at all, please leave me a comment and I’ll get back to you. If you’d like to see a particular tutorial, let us know!
Stay tuned for my next tutorial!
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